January 17, 2019

No sex? For almost a year? Whew child... folks look at me like I'm either a unicorn or a liar when I tell them I've decided to abstain from having sex almost a year ago. In 2019 not many women, especially in my environment, can say they have and would do the same. I ca...

January 11, 2019

One thing we can all admit... BREAKING UP IS HARD TO DO!!! And if we're going to be completely honest, it's one of the most painful and difficult experience some of us have gone through... yours truly included. It's been almost a year since my relationship came to an e...

January 1, 2019

Happy 2019!!!! For many, today is just another day, but I want you to look at today as a RESET! A new beginning. Another opportunity to make the best of the life God has given you. A time to let the disappointment of the past year go! An opportunity to still accomplish...

July 24, 2018

For a long time, I would beat myself up about my “mistakes.” What should have been... what could have been... what is verses what I wanted it to be. Honestly... I did this for years and looking back I wasted so much time, time that I now am determined to no longer wast...

May 1, 2018

If you're anything like me... your mind runs on an engine of its own separate from the rest of your body. You could be dog tired and can't fall asleep because your mind keeps racing. And as soon as you wake up, the thoughts coming flooding back as if they were just wai...

April 25, 2018

Recently, I screwed up big time!!! Yes... I can admit - I made a big mistake. My actions hurt someone I truly care about and for that I feel HORRIBLE!! I was trying to do the right thing and it all blew up in my face! But not only did I own it.... I APOLOGIZED for my a...

March 12, 2018

There comes a point in everyone’s life when it’s time to make a change... some realize it, some don’t. But if you’re one of those who realize it... this is for you. 

One of the hardest parts about change is how people around you respond to that change. You’ve done all t...

March 6, 2018

Letting Go... two simple words, yet it's one of the hardest battles that we face as humans... especially females. 

But this goes past relationships.... to friendships, jobs, the past, places, things... you name it. At some point in our lives, we form an attachment to wh...

February 23, 2018

If I had a dollar for every time someone has in-boxed me or commented under my post saying I’m nothing like what they heard about me... I’d be rich! It’s sounds funny... but I’m dead serious. 

At first, I use to find it insulting and would wonder, damn... what’s be...

January 30, 2018

Yes... The rumors are true!!! I've relocated to the A!!! The reasons why... the streets have come up with some real crazy ones this time. LOL! But here’s the real deal.... 

For years I dreamed of moving to Atlanta.  That dream started as far back as high school when loo...

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